Who is Cengiz Akdora?
Cengiz Akdora was born on May 12 in the coastal city of Giresun, Turkey — a place where the sea meets the mountains, and where his lifelong journey of understanding the human heart began.
From sports training to the beauty industry, from hairdressing to energy awareness, Cengiz’s path has been anything but ordinary. Over the years, he developed his own unique techniques in relationship coaching, life coaching, and subconscious transformation, guiding countless individuals to uncover the truth within themselves — both in spirit and in presence.
In this transformative work, he invites you to explore:
Why love sometimes fades, no matter how strong it begins.
The hidden truths behind betrayal and heartbreak.
Whether soulmates are destiny… or illusion.
How broken hearts can not only heal, but trust again.
This is more than just a book about relationships.
It is a companion for the lost, a map for those searching for meaning, and a mirror reflecting the deepest truths of who we are.
Are you ready to rediscover your heart — and see love for what it truly is?
Every love story has two versions — the one we tell others, and the one our hearts whisper in silence.
This book is for the moments when love fades, trust shatters, and you’re left searching for answers in the quiet.
Within these pages, you will find the keys to healing, to understanding, and to loving again — not just others, but yourself.
📚 Relationships and the Psychology of Love
HOW CAN WE WIN BACK THE PERSON WE LOVE AFTER A BREAKUP?
THE IMPACT OF WHERE YOU FIRST MET ON THE RELATIONSHIP
THEY LOVE ME, BUT WHY DON’T THEY COME BACK?
OBSESSION AND EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCE IN FORBIDDEN LOVE
CAN A CHILD SAVE A MARRIAGE?
DOES EVERY NEW LOVE KILL THE PREVIOUS ONE?
RELATIONSHIPS WITH PSYCHOPATHIC PERSONALITIES
KNOWING WHEN TO LET GO: THE TRUE PATH TO BEING IRREPLACEABLE
THE PRICE OF LOVING THE WRONG PERSON: THE WEIGHT THE HEART CANNOT BEAR
DO SOULMATES REALLY EXIST? ATTRACTING LOVE BY KNOWING YOURSELF
LOYALTY AND TRUST: THE CORNERSTONES OF RELATIONSHIPS
TRUST IN RELATIONSHIPS: MOVING FORWARD OR HOLDING BACK?
YOU’RE GOOD FOR ME: THE SILENT CRY OF UNHEALED HEARTS
MANIPULATION AND PSYCHOLOGICAL GAMES IN RELATIONSHIPS
ATTENTION AND APPROVAL IN RELATIONSHIPS: GIVING UP YOUR OWN VALUE
WHY DO WE KEEP GETTING LOST IN THE SAME RELATIONSHIPS, SAME PAIN, SAME CYCLE?
THE UNSHAKABLE FOUNDATIONS OF A RELATIONSHIP: RESPECT, TRUST, OPEN COMMUNICATION, MUTUAL SUPPORT
EMOTIONAL MASTERY IN RELATIONSHIPS: THE ART OF TRUE CONNECTION
THE LANGUAGE OF RELATIONSHIPS: RESPECT AND VALUE
IS THE PERSON YOU MET REALLY TRUSTWORTHY?
TO LOVE SOMEONE OR TO SHAPE THEM?
REVENGE OR FORGIVENESS?
SETTING BOUNDARIES: PROTECTING YOURSELF OR SHUTTING PEOPLE OUT?
SETTING BOUNDARIES: BEING ABLE TO SAY “NO” TO YOUR PARTNER
AFTER A BREAKUP, DOES THE PERSON I THINK ABOUT ALSO THINK OF ME?
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS: BALANCING DISTANCE, MIND, AND HEART
KNOWING YOUR WORTH: SELF-RESPECT AND SELF-CONFIDENCE
SELF-RESPECT AND SELF-WORTH: VALUING YOURSELF AND BUILDING INNER SECURITY
THE SILENT BUT DEEP PATH OF RESPECT
MAKE PEACE WITH YOUR EMOTIONS, FREE YOUR MIND
SELF-COMPASSION: THE POWER OF EMBRACING YOURSELF
SELF-COMPASSION OR SEEING YOURSELF AS FLAWED?
BETRAYING YOURSELF: LIVING THE LIFE YOU DESIRE
HIDDEN ANSWERS IN SILENCE: UNDERSTANDING THE POWER OF STILLNESS
THE CONFRONTATION BEHIND WORDS: I’M SORRY
THE TRUE FACE OF THOSE WHO SPEAK BEHIND YOUR BACK: THE ANATOMY OF SILENT BETRAYAL
SEEING AND FEELING BEYOND WORDS
MANAGE YOUR INTENTIONS, NOT JUST YOUR THOUGHTS
EVERY POSITIVE THOUGHT CREATES A FREQUENCY VALUE AND ATTRACTS ENERGY
YOU HAVE THE POWER TO SHAPE EVERYTHING
MANIFESTATION: SHAPE YOUR LIFE WITH THE POWER OF YOUR THOUGHTS
THE LAW OF FREQUENCY... EVERYTHING YOU THINK IS VIBRATION
WHATEVER YOU THINK, WHATEVER YOU WANT, IT WILL MANIFEST
WHAT YOU GIVE SPACE TO IN YOUR MIND, YOU MAKE ROOM FOR IN YOUR LIFE
WHEN YOUR MIND AND HEART ARE AT WAR, THE ONE WHO STAYS: THE SILENT WITNESS OF TRUE LOVE
GROWING STRONGER FROM WHERE YOU BROKE: THE TRANSFORMATIVE POWER OF TRAUMA
THE NOBLE POWER OF LETTING GO: LEAVING OUT OF LOVE IS NOT WEAKNESS, IT IS WISDOM
BETRAYAL: THE OUTWARD REFLECTION OF INNER EMPTINESS
READING THE TRUTHS HIDDEN IN SILENCE
LEARNING TO THINK: CATCHING YOUR OWN POTENTIAL
CONTROL TIME
FACE YOUR FEARS
THE POWER BORN FROM MISTAKES: THE TRUE PATH TO SUCCESS
OVERCOMING MENTAL BLOCKS: DISCOVER YOUR TRUE POTENTIAL
MAINTAINING BALANCE IN RELATIONSHIPS: DON’T LOSE YOURSELF
SILENCING MENTAL NOISE
DOES TIME HEAL TRAUMA, OR JUST MAKE YOU FORGET?
TO BE NOTICED OR TO BE UNDERSTOOD? – THE TRUE KEY TO DEEP CONNECTION
BELONGING OR DEPENDENCE?
LONELINESS OR BEING ALONE? – A JOURNEY INTO YOURSELF
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE: YOU CAN’T UNDERSTAND LIFE WITHOUT RECOGNIZING YOUR FEELINGS
POSITIVE THINKING OR BEING REALISTIC?
DISCOVERING YOUR POTENTIAL: PUSHING YOUR LIMITS OR ACCEPTING THEM?
SETTING GOALS OR BEING ON THE JOURNEY?
KNOWING YOUR FEARS OR INCREASING YOUR COURAGE?
UNDERSTANDING YOURSELF OR UNDERSTANDING OTHERS?
THE MIND CREATES ANXIETY TO PROTECT YOU
ADAPTING TO CHANGE OR RESISTING IT?
LIVING IN THE MOMENT OR PLANNING THE FUTURE?
PATIENCE OR ENJOYING THE PROCESS?
CHOOSING YOUR OWN PATH OR FOLLOWING SOCIETY’S EXPECTATIONS?
THE ABILITY TO COPE WITH CRISES
FINDING YOUR OWN PATH AND THE SEARCH FOR MEANING
SELF-DEFENSE AND HEALTHY COMMUNICATION
MENTAL CLEANSING: FREEING YOURSELF FROM THE EFFECTS OF PAST AND FUTURE
LOVE AND ROMANCE: UNDERSTANDING THE DIFFERENCE
REDISCOVERING THE LIGHT LOST IN THE SHADOW
THE INVISIBLE POWER BETWEEN PAIN AND HAPPINESS
NOT REJECTING PAIN, BUT TRANSFORMING IT
TRUST: A BOND BUILT THROUGH ACTIONS, NOT WORDS
GOOD OR EVIL? – THE HIDDEN SIDE OF HUMAN CHOICES
YOUR TRUE IDENTITY IS HOW YOU RISE WHEN YOU FALL
A PARTNER WHO SHARES THE SAME PASSION
CREATING YOUR BEST VERSION: THE JOURNEY THE HEART SEES, NOT THE EYES
LETTING THE WRONG PERSON INTO YOUR LIFE: THE PSYCHOLOGICAL AND ENERGETIC EFFECTS OF BAD RELATIONSHIPS
NOT WORDS, BUT ACTIONS: IN SEARCH OF TRUE LOVE, TRUST, AND CHANGE
ADDICTIONS: RECLAIMING PERSONAL POWER AND CONTROL
THE DOUBTS THAT SILENTLY ERODE RELATIONSHIPS
BRINGING OUT THE LIGHT WITHIN
ARE YOU TRULY FLAWLESS, OR JUST FOOLING YOURSELF? – THE ILLUSION OF PERFECTION
EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCE AND SELF-CONFIDENCE: THE JOURNEY FROM LACK TO FREEDOM
LOVE OR DEPENDENCE? – A SPIRITUAL JOURNEY IN SEARCH OF TRUE LOVE
LOVE OR POSSESSION?
ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT: INSECURITY
INDECISION FEEDS FEELINGS OF WORTHLESSNESS IN RELATIONSHIPS
AM I GOOD OR BAD?
THE TRUE SOURCE OF POWER
THE MYSTERY OF PROCRASTINATION
THE TRANSFORMATIVE POWER OF EMOTIONS
THE DARK TRACES THAT SHAPE OUR MENTAL STRUCTURE: FALSE INFORMATION AND TEACHINGS
BEING A PRISONER IN THE DUNGEON YOU CREATED
THE FINE LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND BOUNDARIES
SPIRITUAL JOURNEY: INNER DISCOVERY AND UNIVERSAL CONNECTION
FREEDOM IS THE WORK OF THOSE WHO READ AND UNDERSTAND
AND WHAT ABOUT WHAT YOU’VE IGNORED?
UNCERTAINTY CREATES WORTHLESSNESS AT EVERY STAGE OF LIFE
WHAT IS HUMANITY’S TRUE LEGACY?
EVERY THOUGHT EVENTUALLY FADES FROM YOUR MIND
STOP READING MINDS: SILENCE IS ALSO AN ANSWER
A MIND THAT DOES NOT QUESTION REMAINS IN DARKNESS
LIFE’S TURNING POINT: COINCIDENCE OR CHOICE?
MOMENTS OF CRISIS: WHERE TRUE CHARACTER IS TESTED
MISTAKE OR CHOICE? – THE LIMITS OF FORGIVENESS
ACCOMPANYING SOMEONE ON THEIR JOURNEY OF GROWTH WITHOUT INTERFERING
WE DRESS THE SOUL WE DREAM OF IN BODIES THAT DON’T DESERVE IT
THE BALANCE OF POWER: CAN A RICH WOMAN BE HAPPY WITH A POOR MAN?
THE POINT WHERE JOINT DECISIONS MEET TRUE CONNECTION
TRANSCENDING THE LIMITS OF REALITY: THE POWER OF IMAGINATION
THINKING DELICATELY AND GETTING HURT: THE INNER DIMENSION OF GRACE
LETTING GO OF THE PAST AND LOOKING FORWARD
RUNNING FROM YOURSELF: THE CONFLICT BETWEEN MIND AND SOUL
TRUE LOVE STARTS WITH LOVING YOURSELF FIRST
FORGIVING THE PAST AND BEING REBORN
FORGIVE THE PAST, LIVE HAPPILY IN FREEDOM
What if every heartbreak, every unanswered question, and every silent tear was a doorway… back to yourself?
From the secrets of love and the fragility of trust,
to the shadows of the subconscious and the quiet power of transformation —
this book is your journey through 128 profound truths about life, relationships, and the self.
Here, you will discover:
Love’s hidden psychology – Why we choose who we choose, and why we hold on even when it hurts.
The art of letting go – Not as an act of weakness, but as the highest form of wisdom.
The science of emotion – How your mind and heart speak in frequencies, and how to tune them.
The mirror within – Facing the parts of yourself you’ve hidden, forgotten, or feared.
Every chapter is not just a topic — it’s a key.
Every page is a threshold.
And every word carries a frequency that resonates with the soul.
From psychodynamic insights to neuroscience,
from evolutionary instincts to the codes of human connection,
from trauma’s silent imprints to the unshakable foundations of trust —
this is more than a book.
It is an invitation to meet yourself at the deepest level.
You will explore:
Why some loves never return — and why that’s not a loss.
How to break free from emotional dependence without losing your capacity to love.
The invisible line between soulmates and illusions.
Why certain people enter your life — and why you must learn to let them leave.
The hidden language of silence, and what it reveals about the human heart.
This is not just a guidebook.
It is a mirror that reflects the self you cannot run from,
a companion for the nights when your soul aches for answers,
and a reminder that every ending is the seed of a beginning.
128 Topics. 128 Doors.
And each one leads you closer to the life — and the love — you were meant for.
Coming soon…
When you open this book,
you may discover that the person you’ve been searching for
has been waiting inside you all along..
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📚 Relationships and the Psychology of Love
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